Sharing 365 life lessons, tips, or hacks; the things that make life easier, happier, and more productive. I hope you’ll follow along and find them helpful too.
Make a ‘Before I Die’ list
What kind of things are on your bucket list? Who do you want to settle things with? What do you want to learn before you die? No matter how much time you have in front of you, it’s possible you have a long list of things you want to do before your time on this Earth runs out. Put it in writing.
I recommend that the list be divided into categories such as travel, people, learning, achievements, and good will as well as any other header that you deem appropriate. It doesn’t matter how outrageous it seems today as we never know what our future holds. Disregard – in the moment at least – the money needed to achieve any list item; this is just a ‘master’ list; a dream list.
I suggest that one of the lists is ‘little’ things – regardless of topic – so that while you plan for the bigger, perhaps more expensive things, you are still accomplishing items from your list and generating a sense of satisfaction. I know someone that simply wants to “keep a houseplant alive” on her list.
Because we never know what tomorrow may bring, go back to each topic and prioritize the items there. If you want to travel to London, Quebec, and Fiji before you die, which one is most important? Second? Third? Which topic is most important to you? Is learning more important to you now than travel? Does good will tug at your heartstrings more than accomplishment? Since you’ll feel good about mastering the things that are important to you, you’ll need to identify them.
For many, this may be the hard part. Our thoughts are always running away in short fantasy about how we’ll live our lives and then we get caught up in the day-to-day living things, claiming that there aren’t enough hours in a day. Life needs balance and it is important to foster a sense of anticipation, excitement, and achievement. In order to feel those things, we have to step up and ‘just do it’. So… think about what’s important to you, what brings you joy, and what is happening when you feel satisfied. Then, with pen in hand…
Make a ‘Before I Die’ list.
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